When something is not meant for you, it will not happen, no matter what you do. When something is meant for you, no one can take that from you, ever. It will come, and like in the most miraculous ways, it will come. When you let something go, you take your power back, you take your energy from that thing back. When you are too focused on things, for example, let’s say you’re obsessing over an ex, the minute you stop wanting that ex, all of a sudden he/she texts you, all of a sudden he/she calls you, he’s/she’s now obsessed with you. Why? You took your energy back. The minute you take back your energy from all these things, and you are now whole by yourself, those things become attracted to you. They want to be with you instead of you wanting to be with them. Because nothing likes desperation. Desperation is a repulsive energy. When you are desperate, you have a lack of mindset. You don’t believe that this earth is abundant, and this earth is very abundant. God gave us everything.
Some people talk to you in their free time, and some people free up their time to talk to you. Make sure you know the difference.
You have to be able to separate how you feel about someone from how someone makes you feel, those are very different things. I may feel about a person that they are charismatic, adorable, and intelligent, and wise, and fun, but if they make me feel lonely, and sad, and anxious, and stressed, and questioning my value, that’s the reality of my relationship. So you can think someone is a god, but if they make you feel like you’re nothing, that’s going to be your experience.
Have you ever wondered why relationships seemed stronger 25 years ago? Back then, people weren’t texting their exes at 2 AM. They weren’t sending inappropriate selfies to friends. They weren’t scrolling through their phones while their partner sat next to them waiting for attention. Couples didn’t have a backup plan ready the moment things got tough. They stayed. They worked through their problems. They communicated openly and honestly. And they didn’t air their issues on social media. They protected their love, nurtured their bond, and grew together. Relationships today don’t fail because of technology. They fail because we’ve let distractions take priority over connection. If you want your love to thrive, put your phone down. Be present with your partner. Communicate openly. Choose them over distractions every single day. Because love isn’t about competition. It’s about commitment.
Men need respect more than they love sex. A man can build castles to the woman respects him, follows his lead and is his biggest supporter. When a man feels truly valued, when his efforts are acknowledged and his leadership is trusted, he will move mountains for the woman by his side. A man who feels respected, doesn’t just provide, he protects and he dedicates himself fully to the woman who stands by him.
When a man feels unappreciated and constantly questioned his love begins to fade. No matter how strong his feelings are, disrespect eats away at his desire to give, to protect and to commit. A man doesn’t need perfection, he needs a woman who believes in him, supports his vision and stands with him through every storm. When he finds that, he won’t just build castles, he will make her queen of his entire kingdom.
